If a wife suspects her husband of cheating, is it ok to go thru his phone records to see if he is?

@Briteeyes: yes it is...do it if he's on bathroom or go to outside of the house without his phone lol

@Briteeyes: mine does

I asked this question on fb too and so far its ALL yes'

Yes....but I disagree with sneaking. If I suspect my mate I'm going to ask him to hand me his phone and let me look right in front of him. If he says no then it's on like donkey kong! I wld hand mine over in a heartbeat...but he better not let me catch him sneaking into my privacy...what is good for the goose is good for the gander in my books.

This lady is going to the Verizon store to get a print out of all text and web sites he's visited.

@OneWitWonder:

When she does this she can see if the guy I been talking to is cheating...I told him she was checking the records but she didn't tell her husband. He seemed a lil paranoid but said its cause she's dragging us in their s*it....so now I'm a lil paranoid and don't know if its right to hear what the report says....is it deceitful?

You know...it might just be easier to ask the guy. For me, if cheating becomes an option, there are WAY bigger issues than just sexual gratification. The woman WILL find out. You can be on the other side of the globe, with a girl that doesn't speak English and lives in a remote village with no electricity...and your wife/girlfriend will still find out.

It's easier just to break it off. Yes, it sucks, and it hurts...still less painful than the blow up that will ensue when you cheat.

@Briteeyes: mine did that to me last year & only read a cpl txts sent to me as well as my replies. she took everything totally out of context & raked me over the coals. after that i locked my phone. ive never invaded her privacy even tho ive had reasons to do so. if you do that, you should expect the same in return.