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How can we tell when our partners are lying.... (by Nainie)

 Nainie (0)    (52 / F-M / Kuwait)
19-Feb-13 5:32 am
Its so nice to be here,hello evryone....so let me proceed,when we are in an intimate relationship,is there really not a chance that our loved one wld lie to us,when we feel something,like his starting to be cold in bed not like he was before,but during d day he acts like normal,sweet and caring...is he lying about something?

 

 

 
 
 Hawkeye58 (35)    (65 / M-F / Arizona)
19-Feb-13 5:37 am
Our senses and gut feelings are usually a better indicator than given credit for.

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
19-Feb-13 5:40 am
I agree with Hawk. If u smell a rat....u can usually find droppings

 

 

 
 
 HiEnergy (3)    (52 / M-F / Ontario)
19-Feb-13 5:53 am
I always found body language give everything away. Just ask questions an water his candy language an an you will see the see what l mean. Foot just ask the ones that matter start with ones you already know the answers too

 

 

 
 
 princessj (12)    (30 / F-MF / Nigeria)
19-Feb-13 6:18 am
i don't believe cheating is the only reason why a guy could loss his powers in bed don't forget there is also stress,fatigue and you name it that could lower a guys sexual abilities so my advice is sit him down and talk about it befor you take any decision.

 

 

 
 
 chinesegirl41 (10)    (52 / F-MF / Hong Kong)
19-Feb-13 6:34 am
Hawkeye58 is right, your senses and feeling will tell you..... in my case, our sexual intimacy started to go cold, he always has an excuse, like he's tired, sleepy or sick. He wouldn't let go of his phone even in the bathroom, his phone would received messages at 2 am in the morning, i would find receipt of a motel room or a bus ticket somewhere. But he acts all sweet and caring everyday. Caught him texting girls he met on a dating site, his emails are the intimate type..... when i comfronted him, he stay silent, really frustrating like talking to a brick wall. He even calls me crazy, he gets caught red handed and i'm the one whose crazy.....lol. Once a guy starts acting strange be wary....

 

 

 
 
 kymberbutt1976 (4)    (48 / F-M / Tennessee)
19-Feb-13 6:40 am
id have a sit down and talk with him and ask himif anything is bothering him and then express your concerns...and pay attention to his body language and eye contact, cause with anyone if they dont keep eye contact while speaking to you they usually have a guilty conscience..just dont sound like ur accusing him of anything. cause in my experience he'll shut down quickly and not talk if he thinks or feels hes being accused. hope this helps babygirl

 

 

 
 
 Hawkeye58 (35)    (65 / M-F / Arizona)
19-Feb-13 6:48 am
If you've been with the same person for any significant amount of time, knowing their not being honest, is not very difficult. Admitting to yourself that their lying to you, and accepting the consequences of their dishonesty, is the hard part!!

 

 



Last edited by Hawkeye58; 19-Feb-13 6:54 am.
 
 
 kobby87 (0)    (36 / M-F / Ghana)
19-Feb-13 8:13 am
i agree with princess sm extent.but the issue will be hw often does he keep doing this.virtually feeling kind of dull n cold all night.if ur indeed feeling stress u jxt got to let ur partner knw.but then ladies first findout wat they aint doing right that could push him off too.

 

 

 
 
 kobby87 (0)    (36 / M-F / Ghana)
19-Feb-13 8:19 am
also i suggest u oneday call his cell when his not at home to findout where he is and them call two or three of his close friends to findout where he might exactly be.but as i said earlier just check within urself first.

 

 

 
 
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