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My soul mate !!! (by Amy4hrt123)

 Amy4hrt123 (-1)  (42 / F-M / Ohio)
19-Jul-21 8:52 am
Hello everyone out here , I do want to go on with my life and I’ve asked God to bring someone into my life who will want me for whom i am and be good to me I know that there is someone out there for me because God never does anything without a reason even if we can’t figure it out, I also believe that the lord has someone else in mind for me to share the rest of my life with because the lord doesn’t want us to be alone or lonely.let’s see how it works

 

 

 
 
 sassytessy30 (0)  (35 / F-M / Tennessee)
10-Feb-22 3:41 am
I am independent,loving, honest,caring, faithful woman who has my own busy life I am a woman of substance and presence, wise, open and kind, family is important to me,I am grounded and fun loving even though i had lost both parents when i was 4. I have the ability to create around me the life and the things that I want and the things in life we would want together� I want to continuously grow as a person with a strong man by my side to grow with me forever with real love� I would be happiest with an intelligent, sexy, educated,romantic, attractive man whom I can respect, admire, and adore

 

 

 
 
 mbeauty2 (-1)   (37 / F-M / California)
12-Feb-22 2:08 pm
Hello everyone out here , I do want to go on with my life and I’ve asked God to bring someone into my life who will want me for whom i am and be good to me I know that there is someone out there for me because God never does anything without a reason even if we can’t figure it out, I also believe that the lord has someone else in mind for me to share the rest of my life with because the lord doesn’t want us to be alone or lonely.let’s see how it works

 

 

 
 
 mbeauty2 (-1)   (37 / F-M / California)
20-Feb-22 10:54 am
I was married to Dylan. Technically still am since the divorce hasn't concluded yet.
A few months ago, I was looking at my 5 year old daughters toy digital camera.
I found a picture from a playdate of her and a friend. But in the background, my husband was making out with the friend's mom.
I pulled the card off the camera and made copies.
I had a work trip planned, I was supposed to leave the following day along with three colleagues for a week and a half. I called my boss, and was honest with her, I'd discovered that day that Dylan was cheating and I was distraught, and I didn't think I could handle still going on the trip. She was so understanding, she said that I should stay home, and take time off.
I decided to tell Dylan I was still going on the work trip, but instead go to my mom's house. I knew I didn't want to stay with him, but I was feeling overwhelmed with the details. My mom got me a lawyer.
Several days before I was set to return, we arranged for a police officer to stop by and serve the divorce papers and paperwork for a temporary custody order establishing joint custody. And a request for all contact to go through the lawyer.
He didn't call her. He called me, again and again, and texted me, and ****ing emailed me.
He kept saying he uwas sad, or angry, or otherwise upset that I'd "ghost" him when we had a child together and not even give him a chance to explain himself or work things out for our daughter.
I don't feel like parents staying in an unhappy marriage for the kids is a good idea, my parents did for way too long, for my sake, and I wish they wouldn't have. I don't want to ever make my daughter feel how I did, like she's the reason her mom is suffering.
But the thing that's making me question my choice is, talking to my friends. When I told them about finding out he was cheating and initiating a divorce, I was honestly expecting sympathy.
But they all told me I was making a big mistake by not at least hearing him out. They said that sometimes people stray, but it can be worked through, he's always been a great husband to me and a great father, they know he loves me, and it was hasty of me to throw that all away over one kiss.
I said that he had been a great husband... When he had been my husband and my partner in life. But as far as I was concerned he wasn't anymore, he had found someone else.
They said I was too black and white about a really complicated situation and I said I didn't find it complicated at all. But honestly now I'm overthinking it and doubting myself.
What should I do? Continue with my lawyer's advice and only go through her? Or hear out my ex like he wants even though I have no desire to talk to him?
TLDR - my husband cheated. I found out and only communicated through lawyers and police since, I'm not sure i made the right choice.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 
 
 Greekstud89 (0)       (35 / M-F / New York)
23-Feb-22 2:06 am
I thought you had a son not a daughter

And you told me ur husband died

 

 

 
 
 Lindalee11 (0)  (37 / F-M / South Carolina)
23-Feb-22 4:10 am
I just hope and pray and find that right man for me on here coz I have heard a lot of testimony from successful relationship from here and I always pray and hope to find that right man for me also. I’m just tired of been lonely and bored all the time. I really do want to fall in love again coz I don’t want to be in a bad mood all the time not having a partner to share things with. It’s really important to have a good partner in life coz life is really hard to survive on its own. So two heads are better than one. I’m just hoping and praying to find that right man for me. I have waited long enough and I don’t want to be lonely anymore. Need a loving caring and honest man in my life.

 

 

 
 
 diannasalo34 (0)  (37 / F-M / Kansas)
30-Aug-22 10:41 pm
Hello i am Dianna by name .. i am so New here and single lady , fun to be with

 

 

 
 
 Amy4hrt123 (-1)  (42 / F-M / Ohio)
23-Nov-22 8:09 am
Hello everyone out here , I do want to go on with my life and I’ve asked God to bring someone into my life who will want me for whom i am and be good to me I know that there is someone out there for me because God never does anything without a reason even if we can’t figure it out, I also believe that the lord has someone else in mind for me to share the rest of my life with because the lord doesn’t want us to be alone or lonely.let’s see how it works
I hope to find that special man for me someday

 

 

 
 
 Amy4hrt123 (-1)  (42 / F-M / Ohio)
23-Nov-22 8:18 am
Respect and adhere to taking care of business in life--family, work, community, etc Yet, I know life involves alance. I look for the good in most situations and choose to look for the good in others. I know that life involves give and take and that what you seek--is that you must be willing to give and demonstrate yourself. I am a romantic at heart. I like to be appreciated and complimented to which I would do the same for that special someone

 

 

 
 
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23-Nov-22 6:44 pm
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