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BF never invites me over to his place (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
BF never invites me over to his place
Hello all! My (34f) bf [31m] and I have been together almost 11 months now. We both live about 30 mins from each other. We both are divorced. We spend as much time as we can with each other, he works very long hours. We do lunch dates a few days a week and spend a Saturday night together. Never overnight though. I understand his job is stressful. We however, hardly spend the night together. The very few chances we do are spent in a hotel. I have asked him why he never invites me over and he says his roommates are pigs etc... he has met my mom and been to my house. Is this a red flag? How can I approach the situation without looking so sneaky? Is he hiding something bigger here? I would hate to know that he?s hiding something. What would you do?
TLDR: BF of 10 months won?t let me visit his place... haven?t met any of his friends and family members...
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Hello all! My (34f) bf [31m] and I have been together almost 11 months now. We both live about 30 mins from each other. We both are divorced. We spend as much time as we can with each other, he works very long hours. We do lunch dates a few days a week and spend a Saturday night together. Never overnight though. I understand his job is stressful. We however, hardly spend the night together. The very few chances we do are spent in a hotel. I have asked him why he never invites me over and he says his roommates are pigs etc... he has met my mom and been to my house. Is this a red flag? How can I approach the situation without looking so sneaky? Is he hiding something bigger here? I would hate to know that he?s hiding something. What would you do?
TLDR: BF of 10 months won?t let me visit his place... haven?t met any of his friends and family members...
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