My (27F) boyfriend (25M) left me alone after my friend died to "teach me a lesson"

A couple days ago, a dear friend of mine died. Yesterday I was completely devasted, of course I told my (27F) boyfriend (25M) of one year and asked him if he wanted to come over because I needed some company and a shoulder to cry on.
He told me he wanted to hang out with his friend instead. Then proceeded to turn his phone off for 3-4 hours.
When in the evening I confronted him about it, he said "of course I knew you needed me, but you did not told me clearly. I hung out with my friends to teach you a lesson, next time you'll say you need me straight away". He also added "of course I'm not in pain for your friend, I did not know him, so why should I not hang out with my friends for grieving a person I did not even know".
I'm speechless and completely devasted about all this. Now he pretends to act like none of that happened and, even though he said he was sorry (I cried on the phone) he does not seem to understand what he did wrong.
He offered to come over but right now I do not want to see him or even talk to him. I do not know what to do. His lack of empathy shatters me.
I don't think I want a person like that with me. But is it possibile am I overreacting because, right now, I'm sad for my loss? Should have I told him right away that I needed him?
tl;dr: after my friend died, my bf left me alone to "teach me a lesson". I'm devastated and seriously considering to break up and ending AN over one year relationship.
Edit: my previous post was removed because looked like a vent more than a request for opinions/advices. I'm sorry. Not in the best mental state right now. I rephrased, i hope that' okay now.


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