Hello everyone! I'm Globe, just a nickname. Im from philippines. i just need an advice about love? Can we talk? Please message me. Many thanks! <3

Any relationship, whether it is personal, business, organizational, community, family, love, or romantic, cannot survive without trust. But, unfortunately, trust in relationships is now rare. Lack of trust may have a negative impact on one's life. It can destroy the glory of relationships, thereby paving way for jealousy and devastation. Hence, modeling trust in relationships is important to improve the value of a long term deal.

I was married to Dylan. Technically still am since the divorce hasn't concluded yet.
A few months ago, I was looking at my 5 year old daughters toy digital camera.
I found a picture from a playdate of her and a friend. But in the background, my husband was making out with the friend's mom.
I pulled the card off the camera and made copies.
I had a work trip planned, I was supposed to leave the following day along with three colleagues for a week and a half. I called my boss, and was honest with her, I'd discovered that day that Dylan was cheating and I was distraught, and I didn't think I could handle still going on the trip. She was so understanding, she said that I should stay home, and take time off.
I decided to tell Dylan I was still going on the work trip, but instead go to my mom's house. I knew I didn't want to stay with him, but I was feeling overwhelmed with the details. My mom got me a lawyer.
Several days before I was set to return, we arranged for a police officer to stop by and serve the divorce papers and paperwork for a temporary custody order establishing joint custody. And a request for all contact to go through the lawyer.
He didn't call her. He called me, again and again, and texted me, and ****ing emailed me.
He kept saying he uwas sad, or angry, or otherwise upset that I'd "ghost" him when we had a child together and not even give him a chance to explain himself or work things out for our daughter.
I don't feel like parents staying in an unhappy marriage for the kids is a good idea, my parents did for way too long, for my sake, and I wish they wouldn't have. I don't want to ever make my daughter feel how I did, like she's the reason her mom is suffering.
But the thing that's making me question my choice is, talking to my friends. When I told them about finding out he was cheating and initiating a divorce, I was honestly expecting sympathy.
But they all told me I was making a big mistake by not at least hearing him out. They said that sometimes people stray, but it can be worked through, he's always been a great husband to me and a great father, they know he loves me, and it was hasty of me to throw that all away over one kiss.
I said that he had been a great husband... When he had been my husband and my partner in life. But as far as I was concerned he wasn't anymore, he had found someone else.
They said I was too black and white about a really complicated situation and I said I didn't find it complicated at all. But honestly now I'm overthinking it and doubting myself.
What should I do? Continue with my lawyer's advice and only go through her? Or hear out my ex like he wants even though I have no desire to talk to him?
TLDR - my husband cheated. I found out and only communicated through lawyers and police since, I'm not sure i made the right choice.

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