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Advice (by ShyBF)

 ShyBF 
24-Sep-15 8:41 am
Hello everyone. Hope you are fine. Well a friend of mine has a problem, she met this guy about 6 years ago and fell in love with him at first sight, at church. They continued meeting at church and whenever she looked at him it felt like he had something to say. Then one day he greeted her and they become just simple friends. She got his phone number, which was not really like her, to contact guys. Because of him she jumped that wall. She was only 15 and the guy 24 years old. The guy was already working and was very busy. When she texted him he delayed some of her texts, at the time he didn't even tell her how old he is and when she asked he delayed. Fear built inside of her, like maybe he found her cheap and didn't have morals because she was younger. But their friendship never ended, the guy left the neighborhood for work and she thought she would never see him again. When she went to college, she texted him sometimes but it was difficult to get closer to him, and she got disappointed because she couldn't confess her feelings without getting closer to him. Then 2 months ago she came back from college and to her surprise, that guy moved back in the neighborhood and this time closer than ever. Their friendship grew so much, something that she wished would happen years ago. One day the guy told her that he is seeing someone, it led my friend to finally confess her feelings and she was already in the process to do so. The guy was surprised, and he confessed that after getting closer to her he has feelings for her too, something he should have done years ago when my friend was looking for him. The problem is he already introduced his gf at home, and his gf introduced him. He is a very God fearing man. My friend is heartbroken now, crying. Because what she feels is true love and now she's not herself at all. The guy told her that back then she was so young that talking with her about such things was hard for him. And after spending some time with her, now he likes her too but he fears God and their parents and hurting the one he is seeing now. Now that she thought maybe God brought him back to give her a chance, this happens. God has given her the biggest test of her life. Please help.....

 

 



Last edited by ShyBF; 24-Sep-15 8:47 am.
 
 
 chislon23 (6)    (33 / M-F / Nigeria)
24-Sep-15 2:57 pm
Well if you ask me i will advice your friend to move on since that dude already had a woman in his life she shouldn't ' give him reason to cheat on his bae There re million guys out dere that she can still fall in love with #myopinionthough

 

 

 
 
 Joshwatter 
24-Sep-15 4:25 pm
Couldnt agree more. personaly i feel that love is a big hole, n many people fall in it... but they last about a year....

 

 

 
 
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