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My bf filmed us without my consent (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
my bf filmed us without my consent
my bf 29M filmed us without my consent.
so i?ve been dating my (m29) bf for 8 months. i?m a (22f.) Around 2 months into our relationship, he brought up filming us during intercourse. i immediately shut it down and said that wasn?t my type of thing. he joked and said ?well it?s better to ask for forgiveness than permission? and i told him if he did that he?d be single. fast forward to this past weekend. it was my birthday. i have endometriosis and was having a two week long flare up and due to that wasn?t having much sex. but i started feeling better this past weekend. he took me out of town to the mountains and we had a beautiful time. while we were there, he brought up how he wanted to film us again because it would be ?so hot? etc. i told him that i wasn?t too sure about that. later that night,he brought it back up and i told him again that ?i really don?t know about thatttt? but i ended up telling him i was comfortable with him filming me giving him head, the next time we had sex. we had sex the next day and i made a joke after we finished. i said ?you didn?t get your video!? and we both laughed it off. yesterday night we had sex again but afterwords he was looking at his phone grinning. i questioned him on it and he finally tossed me his phone to reveal a video of us during intercourse that he had just recorded. i immediately got upset and said that he never asked my permission. he deleted it and cleared his recently deleted. he profusely apologized and said he misunderstood me when i joked about how he never got a video this past time. i told him he knew better and we had discussed this already. he apologized again and promised to never take another. idk how to feel. he asked me if this was a relationship ender and while i don?t want it to be, i feel like i can?t trust him. am i overr reacting? he?s been such a great bf beides this.
TL;DR my bf filmed us after several conversations where i said i was uncomfortable with it and claimed it was because of a misunderstanding.
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my bf 29M filmed us without my consent.
so i?ve been dating my (m29) bf for 8 months. i?m a (22f.) Around 2 months into our relationship, he brought up filming us during intercourse. i immediately shut it down and said that wasn?t my type of thing. he joked and said ?well it?s better to ask for forgiveness than permission? and i told him if he did that he?d be single. fast forward to this past weekend. it was my birthday. i have endometriosis and was having a two week long flare up and due to that wasn?t having much sex. but i started feeling better this past weekend. he took me out of town to the mountains and we had a beautiful time. while we were there, he brought up how he wanted to film us again because it would be ?so hot? etc. i told him that i wasn?t too sure about that. later that night,he brought it back up and i told him again that ?i really don?t know about thatttt? but i ended up telling him i was comfortable with him filming me giving him head, the next time we had sex. we had sex the next day and i made a joke after we finished. i said ?you didn?t get your video!? and we both laughed it off. yesterday night we had sex again but afterwords he was looking at his phone grinning. i questioned him on it and he finally tossed me his phone to reveal a video of us during intercourse that he had just recorded. i immediately got upset and said that he never asked my permission. he deleted it and cleared his recently deleted. he profusely apologized and said he misunderstood me when i joked about how he never got a video this past time. i told him he knew better and we had discussed this already. he apologized again and promised to never take another. idk how to feel. he asked me if this was a relationship ender and while i don?t want it to be, i feel like i can?t trust him. am i overr reacting? he?s been such a great bf beides this.
TL;DR my bf filmed us after several conversations where i said i was uncomfortable with it and claimed it was because of a misunderstanding.
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