Why is it hardto get with someone i wish my dream girl would come along i feel like women dont want me for some reson i dont care how far away you are i just would like to be with a great person

Well one thing for sure you can't rush love. As I always say everything will fall into place at the right time in its own time. Just talk with ppl be yourself and also pacient and you'll be fine :)

@theblackrosejester: i try and talk with people but get nothing back its like they say they want a good guy but the always take the bad ones so whats a good guy supposed to do

I know what ya mean cj. You arent alone in that. Most times when I message women they never answer.

Dont try so hard. Try being friends first. Maybe your turning some women off by being needy. Take it slow. Before you know it you'll have to many ladies after you then what are you going to do. Lol Heartbreaker, just kidding

Cj me too,i just cant get any lady 2 talk with,am ashamed of my self n mayb dis isnt a place 2 find one

i know what you mean the sad part for me is that according to my doctor i have a genetic disorder that makes me have to eat three times the normal person but if i dont i'll only have five years left to live i want to make the most of it

I respond to some of u but ya as a female we get flooded with text me talk dirty where is it making a girl feel like ur interested when most guys r asking every girl on the site what makes u stand out. They flood ur phone with **** pics. Its silly. Every one has one thats male.how r we to take u all seriously when u generalize to much. Yes friends first but i dont respond until someone shares a real personal truth about theirself which shows me possible individuality behavior which akes therefore u stand out putting a marker of who u are. Get it or not there it is

I must agree with olive i mean i join a site for 1 day and boom i'm flooded with 10 messages a minute saying stuff like "wanna f***" or ";D hey sexy mama" and just horndogs. then again alot of guy do indeed generalize stuff to much. i'm a girl but i dont like the total "heyyyy ima bad boy ;D" type stuff i want a good guy who is actualy serious about a relationship. then again maybe you might have been searching in the wrong place. just like there are guys who only want sex there are girl who also want sex to maybe your just looking in the wrong places. idk it depends on whats going on also.
@CJ to be honest its not that some look for a bad boy personally speaking yeah badboys are exciting sometimes but i dont want to worry about them coming home tonight. im just the type who doesnt like to be bored and i'm pretty sure there are guys out there who are good guys and exciting too :D and i must agree with rockhard. sometimes begging for someone to love you is a major turn off. well for me being desperate and saying off the bat "i love you" and i dont even know you is a major turn off. take it slow. for now just talk with people have fun in forums and who knows you might just find the one for you. plus be patient that always helps.
@libertyking dont be ashamed of yourself. everyone has their faults just try to look at what you do have that other's don't :) and make the most of it.

I understand you women get alot of messages but think about every guy seem to have to make the first move. Not saying guys should talk about sex and turning women off. But ladies it would be nice if you make the first move once in awhile. And guys stop making yourself sound like on one loves you or cares. Im here looking for friend from all over the world and im fine with that.