Ok so I have a best friend from turkeu I've liked for a few years. I've asked if she considered dating me but she said she wasn't ready that maybe in a few years after she finishes college and starts a career and doubts she will meet anyone she would like more than me and I'd be the most viable option. I'm not sure what to think on it. She did end of four year relationship around a year ago so maybe that's still bugging her.

If a woman told me this, Id tell her to go f*ck herself, js.....

at least she is being upfront and honest about it and not giving him the run around

Have you met her in person or just online, phone etc.?

Maybe Im reading it wrong....Im reading it as "If I cant find anyone I want, Ill fall back on you"....if thats the case, Im stickin to my "go f*ck yourself" response lol

Don't wait if you don't want to. And don't waste your time...sounds like the runaround to me. Why does she have to finish college before she can date you? That makes no sense. The "focus on school" reason is just something you tell people so you can f*ck whoever you want and not have to answer to anyone. I mean, I could be wrong...go with your intuition.

she did say she doubts she will meet anyone..unless I'm reading it wrong

Idk...maybe the OP will elaborate...

awe fu.ck it lol I really don't care :)

@SweetNothings: I've known her a few years she's very serious about getting good grades whenever she got less than a C I wouldn't hear from her for days