You talk to her... tell her all kinds of stuff like she's so beautiful and ur not attracted to anyone else and you wanna be hers and only hers... and then all of a sudden u drop off the face of the earth. you dont talk to her anymore. and she is left sitting here wondering what the hell she did.
i have a huge problem trusting anyone... ive been ****ed over by alot of people including my family. it takes alot to get me to trust anyone... but when i do THIS always happens. i dont wanna sit here and whine... i just dont understand why u guys play this stupid game... it doesnt make sense.

Not all guys are like that... you knw ive had woman do that to me b4... some guys just dont knw what they have or dont knw what they want

Yeah i know... everyone has hurt someone before at least once... but if everyone is complaining about being hurt why the hell do people play these stupid ****ing games?

Some think it fun and are just A@$holes... Others dont don't mean to do it... Ive hurt an ex of mine but did not mean to do it and felt horrible about it.... (silly rabit games are for kids)

Honestly? Maybe they dont just fall of the face of the earth, theyre most likely low lifes just chick hoppin online or mobilly or however you wanna say it, and guys will say whatever they want to get to your heart, just like girls will do whatever they want to get to a guys heart, its not even real love anymore, also it might not be all guys, just the guys youve shown interest in, leave your comfort zone, hard to say, but do it, youll be surprised

Girl i feel for ya. Im getting over heartache that i recieved jus las week as well, not quiet like ur story, but pain is pain. I dont trust easily either but i do have a big heart and that seems to get me in trouble alot. It'll get better in time. I think the worst part is feeling like u were played like a fool, well im no fool and neither are u, so take a day or two to vent then forget about it, find someone that is truely worthy of ur time

@alwayswaiting91: to me it sounds like your with boys not a man.

@mikeymyke ...amen

@alwayswaiting91: I'll find the answer to that as soon as u can find the answer to why women have treated me the way guys have treated u. Twice in my life ladies have just vanished with no explanation. So its not just guys.

Been there done that. Had 2 fiancees back out the wedding at last minute.