I was informed earlier that i spend way to much time on my phone...that i allow this little window control my life...that i am hiding out...not wanting to face life on my own...and its true...i have been afraid to take the next step....i have been pining over someone that i know i will never be with and deep down i dont really even know if i want this person....i have traded one addiction for the other...so starting hopefully tomorrow im going to start living and start excepting dates

@lacey75:

@lacey75: I know what ya talking about.....had my friends mad at me they couldn't get me to do anything, they told me I was hiding from the real world! And believe me I had my reasons....they literally kidnapped me one nite and took me out! Of all places they brought me to a strip club outta town! After a couple of drinks I had the time of my life! Ask Brite I kept sending her pix getting lab dances by ( girl strippers) ! I don't go out much, and not on dates, just with friends ,you cant just go work and be you're own prisoner! You go girl...best of Luck Life is way to short enjoy it! :)

I still have the pictures You do what u gotta do Lace. I think we all use this site to avoid the real world sometimes. Whatever u need to do to better yourself inside and out, your friends here will always be here to support you

thank you and yes it is...and im not just talking about dating...just getting out of this phone, out of my head and these four walls...to enjoy what life has to offer...i mean there was a time when i didnt carry a phone 24/7 and i was just fine lol

@lacey75: I been there, know what you mean! My house was my cave I could hide from the real world , my phone got to be my best friend! :) You have to find you're way out, I did, had some big set backs but fought my way right back on track! Never a dull moment in my life ! Ask Aldo.....Lmao always something going on or wrong ,believe me! I been told if I wouldn't have bad luck I wouldn't have any! Enough said!!!! :)

thank you lol...and i know yal have my back..im not leaving lol just gonna try and spend more time out there besides Falls coming and thats my favorite season i gonna spend more time out in it :)

lol right..

I know how you all feel. My only escape from my phone and mind is work.

@lacey75: Good girl! Life can be real good if we let it. You're young ,smart,beautiful and SASSY.lol You can do anything you set your mind to doing. One step at a time.