I have come to realise that to love is to be foolish if not things won't go right...they say two wrongs don't make a right, if you must love as a man you have to let go the "man ego" in you and as a woman if you must find true love you must learn not to take yourself higher than your beauty(to me every woman is beautiful)... Both of you must learn to do things others consider as foolishness...i quess this foolishness is going to be d strength and the joy of ur relationship...which they wish to have but will never find bcos of their pride and ego

well said

thanks pal

Yes, it's true that people rather hang on to pride and ego than to submit to true love but I dont think true love is false. I believe it's harder for people to have or realize until they learn honesty and trust...fidelity and how to be together for the long term. If I make a fool of myself for someone who appreciates it then there is no loss of trust which is not a loss of love. The purpose of love is to get us all to submit to a way of life together. You cant have pride and ego and also care and "show" love towards your partner. It doesnt work well that way. Once we are able to forego pride and ego and know our own self worth without always fighting for it we'll have true love.

very true...

Well, bolijayz, this is what my bf has shown me so far. He's better at letting go of all that than I am. Past experiences also play a role in how we see and approach true love. It takes time together to truly let go and realize true love. To me pure love is so raw and just happens naturally between the two people. I dont think people who have true love even have to question it. It just is.

that is insanity,,,,,,,,,,lol

I guess when you're in love, it is ;)

The definition of Insanity is doing the same thing more than once expecting different results. Love is very much Insane. And everyone of us is Insane for continuing the Insanity! To end the insanity is to continue love w/ only 1 person.

wowww, truuue....:D