5 months out of a 9yr relationship theres two children involved after catchin her sleepin around i left her some cash and the apt 2 start over where i live now i still look after my kids my problem is tryna meet someone eles isnj so easy after bein faithful to one person so long

That's tough :(

yea.its not like i dont trust anyone after what happen.just having trouble meetin new people n a new place

well now maybe you can join some social clubs in your community and possibly meet some one that way.

good advice. Dont kno of to many places where i live now va is way different from nj

keep tryin to meet someone is my advice

yea.i understand not as easy as i though it would b its like the way things ended wit my x i doubt myself speakin to a lady

Keep you head held hi.never look back on the past.just the futcher i have been there and done it. Dont let one woman get to you.there is a soulmate out there for everyone.just get out there and mingle with people.you knever know she might be standing next to you.

Take some time heal. your children need time to understand. Any rushed relations are doomed to fail because your going to want to dump all your anger and suspicion in her lap. I wont talk with a man for long if he has not left his baggage behind. I am not her. I did not cause his pain. I can not fix a broken man. Only he can pull on his own boot straps and dust himself off.

Really great advice. And very true. :) Things will get easier so long as given time. Everything takes patience and understanding. Good luck with everything. Keep your head up.