i was engaged to by best friend. She and i where happy, sure we had an occasion fight here and there. But about a month after i interduce her to my ex-bf cause she wanted to know some of my friends, i found out that they've been going out behind my back for about a half a month and that he propsed to her and she said yes. I ask her y she said yes to him did she told me "I wasn't thinking at the time. I'm sorry". Can anyone explain this to me please?

cant explain that! Wow what a lame excuse! Wasnt thinking at the time im sorry! WtF... I would cut ties with her if i were u hun! Shes not a real friend!

@rick69420: And this is the reason i'm asking for honesty in a relationship. Can ya blame me? And what's funny bout it she want to try to gain my trust back so we can still be friends. What u think i should do?

Hi cmh, I read your introduction and it hit very close to home. Your ex gf is not a lesbian...she is bi. She wants the both of you and probably at some point if you continue being friends with her, it will lead into a 3some. If this is not something you want, just move on and try your damnest to find another nice lady to start a relationship with. If it is...practice safe sex.

@JustMeAndYou77: the thing is i'm bi, and i quit talking to both them in august. And i've been trying to find someone new. Hopefully someone who's not going to hurt me like that again. So i'm just a bit more careful now but i'm till the kind of person to open up to someone if giving the chance.

ahmmm, well, definitely practice safe sex ok? My sis is swinging on the bi side from her lesbian relationship so that's why I kinda picked up on it. It's hard to maintain a sturdy relationship as a bisexual because the chance for infidelity is higher. If you are looking to have a steadier relationship (lord knows I wanna tell you to grab a man and bag em lol but of course I wont do that :)) ) you and the other bisexual girl need to get some boundaries set and follow them even if you're going to involve a man. D**k can be pretty powerful lol

@JustMeAndYou77: Lol. That u are right bout thanks for hearing what i had to say

yvw and any time

@cmh88: i would tell her to f off but thats just me lol

Angel, i always have this blieve that the more u live the more u learn. And with breakage their is no repair..so always hope for the best.