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Way harder then i remember (by oddguy)

 oddguy 
21-Aug-12 10:41 pm
i was in a relationship for two years and she left me for another guy and im just now getting back into the dating world and i forgot how akward i get sum times and how hard it is to do this.

 

 

 
 
 IrishLove1988 (18)    (35 / F-M / New York)
21-Aug-12 10:45 pm
@oddguy: I hear you! I was engaged for 2 years, with him for 3, and getting back onto the dating scene is redonkulously tough. ESPECIALLY, if you're a shy type, or socially awkward, like me lol

 

 

 
 
 oddguy 
21-Aug-12 10:45 pm
and by akward i mean like excited to hopefully date again im a nice caring guy and am starting to think im just not cut out for dating

 

 

 
 
 oddguy 
21-Aug-12 10:47 pm
@irishlove yea im shy and this is weird to do like i love showing ppl i care and im very affectionate but im kinda scared i wont get a chance to show ppl my awesome squishy side anymore

 

 

 
 
 IrishLove1988 (18)    (35 / F-M / New York)
21-Aug-12 10:51 pm
@oddguy: You will, just gotta give it time. It's a process, it doesn't happen over night :)

 

 

 
 
 oddguy 
21-Aug-12 10:57 pm
@irishlove1988: yea i understand that its just after she left me i became really hard on myself and still kinda am i have that awesome little voice in my head saying she left u so will everyone else which in my heart ik isnt true but it makes my brain do odd things and most likely scare ppl away

 

 

 
 
 Swordsman 
21-Aug-12 10:58 pm
@oddguy: I know hpow ya feel I've been outta the dating scene for 24 years. I dont remember it bein this rough either.

 

 

 
 
 oddguy 
21-Aug-12 11:02 pm
@swordman:yea its not like it was a few years ago for sure

 

 

 
 
 CALIFORNIADREAMIN ( / - / )
21-Aug-12 11:04 pm
i got ditched too homey.......h.o.e.s are h.o.e.s

 

 

 
 
 oddguy 
21-Aug-12 11:23 pm
lmmfao

 

 

 
 
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