My girlfriend[f19] asked me [m19] for more foreplay but is making it hard for me to.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over a year now. During the beginning of our relationship we had a great sex life and we had sex about 2x per week. Once that initial phase ended out sex life dropped off a cliff. Due to a combination of work, school, and other stress we?ve only ended up having sex 6 times in the past 8 months. During that time our sex was really dry and usually consisted of us scheduling times for us to have sex and it all lacked a lot of passion.
Recently things have picked up again however whenever I try to initiate any form of intimacy my girlfriend will push me away. She hates any sort of unprompted kissing or touching. It has gotten to the point where I have to ask her to kiss me because if I try to go into kiss her she will physically push me away from her and when I do ask she specifies how much she wants me to kiss her (once/twice etc). At the same time she told me she would enjoy it if we added more foreplay and organic initiation to our sex life. This is something I?ve wanted to do as well so I gladly agreed.
However when it comes to putting into practice it has been nearly impossible for me. I?ve tried a bunch of different ways of initiating and every time I do she will move away from me. We will still have sex sometimes but it feels very sporadic and I don?t know when to expect it or what I?m doing differently during any given moment with her. I?ve had several discussions with her about how when she does this it makes it feels like she isn?t attracted to me and that the lack of intimacy and affection in our relationship is something that is affecting me. She listens but it?s hard to get a response from her and it normally ends with her saying something along the lines of ?it?s nothing to do with you and I?m still super attracted to you I just don?t know what?s wrong with me.?
It?s been like this for several months and I love her so much I just don?t know how to keep progressing with our sex life, she?s my first sexual partner and I?m just not sure how to move forward with our situation.
TLDR: me and girlfriends sexlife is at a standstill and I don?t know how to move forward.


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