Why don't women understand that all the crappy things that fat women experience, fat men experience them too.

Was reading a thread on askwomenover30 where women were complaining about how shallow and superficial men are, and how since they lost the weight the majority of men were so much friendlier and helpful towards them and it got me thinking do women realise that none of these experiences are mutually excluse to fat women?
For many fat guys they're treated as invisible by women at best or as straight up subhumans at worst. As someone who was overweight up until their mid teens, I would say from my own personal experience that lots of women are just as shallow and superficial as those men and that currently being in the best shape of my life of my life at 28 there is definitely a correlation between how fit I am and how nice women treat me.
I feel like people here are also going to bring up self confidence as a factor in my change of experience and although confidence is definitely important I think it's also quite hard to compare since it's much easier to be self confident when you look good and everyone is being friendly and nice to you.
The obsession with looks is a greater societal issue among both genders and all age groups and trying to point the finger at any one specific group of people is unproductie and unlikely to solve anything. We all just need to work towards being kinder to others in general.


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Of course they know. You went on ask woman and saw a bunch of woman bitching about men even though it’s not a men exclusive issue. Now you are in ask men which is filled with men bitching about woman even though it’s not a woman exclusive issue.It's like they're both human beings or something, and one is not intrinsically better or worse than the other.