Thread: Guys who have given their wife/girlfriend the "Lose weight or I'm leaving" ultimatum - what happened

Guys who have given their wife/girlfriend the "Lose weight or I'm leaving" ultimatum - what happened (by Sparky)

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(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
14-Apr-24 1:45 am

Guys who have given their wife/girlfriend the "Lose weight or I'm leaving" ultimatum - what happened?

I see questions about "My wife/girlfriend has gained a ton of weight and I'm not attracted to her anymore, what should I do?" but I'm wondering: for guys who have been in a relationship where their wife/girlfriend has become morbidly obese, they are no longer attracted to her, and it's become a "fix or or I leave" issue - did making that ultimatum actually result in her losing weight, or did it just result in a fight and the end of the relationship anyway?
Bonus question: If she did lose weight, was that enough for you to stay, or were things too far gone by that point?

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