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My boyfriend tells me how attractive other women are all the time (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My boyfriend tells me how attractive other women are all the time
TLDR; boyfriend seems attracted to everyone but me, don?t know if I should leave
It?s in the title and I?m embarrassed to admit I?m not just dumping him. This involves me (34F) and my boyfriend (33M), we?ve been together 2 & a half years but don?t live together.
I don?t want to be vain but honestly I am above average but date night, my dads birthday, his brothers engagement, any time I am dressed up he doesn?t say anything about me looking good. It took me two years to to notice because I?m secure and confident in myself and then all of a sudden it?s clicked that he always tells me about the attractive women at his work, the party he went to, the ones we pass on the literal street but I cannot remember the last time he said I was beautiful.
He obviously has lots of positive things he contributes but honestly I am feeling so insecure about this is this enough to bail? I?m 34 years old I can?t just mess around with dating.
Thoughts on this? I genuinely can?t tell what?s ok anymore
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TLDR; boyfriend seems attracted to everyone but me, don?t know if I should leave
It?s in the title and I?m embarrassed to admit I?m not just dumping him. This involves me (34F) and my boyfriend (33M), we?ve been together 2 & a half years but don?t live together.
I don?t want to be vain but honestly I am above average but date night, my dads birthday, his brothers engagement, any time I am dressed up he doesn?t say anything about me looking good. It took me two years to to notice because I?m secure and confident in myself and then all of a sudden it?s clicked that he always tells me about the attractive women at his work, the party he went to, the ones we pass on the literal street but I cannot remember the last time he said I was beautiful.
He obviously has lots of positive things he contributes but honestly I am feeling so insecure about this is this enough to bail? I?m 34 years old I can?t just mess around with dating.
Thoughts on this? I genuinely can?t tell what?s ok anymore
Source.
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