You know, i'm not callin anyone out or that nonsense this is just my turn to rant today, wOOt yeah im ranting ahaha. but now, I see all kinds forum posts and threads about women/men not having any luck with the men/women on here. Well all i have to say is if people actually messaged people back ya know maybe JUST maybe, someone would meet someone o.o I mean I know im not the Brad Pitt or Stallone type im just agood ole boy simple and plain. but logic doesn't escape muh tiny brain. So it only seems logically to meet someone you must first A) Message them, B) message them back C) Wink back if they winked you and are interested, or D) Just send a polite message saying no thanks, not interested or what not. I just find it funny how many people complain and groan but then you realize its their fault so hey who is to blame.

I agree.

I agree to B and D but disagree to A and C.... I don't send a message first if I never find that person comfortable with ( haven't had any convo here in the forum ) and sometimes I wink back , sometimes not ......

But since I am not looking for someone , I never complain :D

Haha I agree wit ya matey but I guess they dont wanna hurt a good ol' boys feelings? I wouldnt mind at least tell us "uh... Im totally like... not interested and stuff... cuz you dont look like an abercrombie or fitch model or something... like bye and stuff" lol I would even take that

@notsosecretsexaddict: LMFAO!!!!!

Lol yall r so cute!!! ^.^

Haha thanks and I mean wouldnt you?

Yes i agree mostly...i prefer to send the first message but thats only because I'm predisposed to thinking they are scammers if they message me unless i have seen them here in the forums!!!!

Like I got a match its a cute little girl on here you know and we started talking you know having good convo so i asked for her number but she ignores me 2 days later tries to talk dirty so I say Id prefer to do it in person so she just stops messaging me.... lol intimate encounter with her phone is what she wants....