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Need advice please (by Gglynn)

 heikeva (69)   (60 / F-M / Bayern)
17-Feb-13 12:14 am
@Briteeyes: ive contacted churches and other agencies the cops gave me and they are out of funds in this area. I guess he has to kill me before they realize i needed help.ive never been in this situation where ive had to beg for help and no one cares. Thank you for advice
Gglynn i was upset with the cops cuz they refused to let me stay or go back to my own house! I had my 2 dogs and 2 cats at my house , 2 officers drove me to my house so i could take care of them then i had to go back to shelter for safty and the guy who beat me up didnt even live at my house! I did stay at my girlfriends house for a week with my animals after ! I felt like i was the punished one after what he did to me,not beable to go back to my own house!

 

 

 
 
 Gglynn (6)    (49 / F-M / Tennessee)
17-Feb-13 12:23 am
@heikeva: i had no marks on me this time so they made him leave for night

 

 

 
 
 heikeva (69)   (60 / F-M / Bayern)
17-Feb-13 12:37 am
@heikeva: i had no marks on me this time so they made him leave for night
So it wasn't the first time this happened then the cops should know better, and what he has done to you b4! I dont like cops but i have 2 say one thing....they were very caring 100% behind me and made sure i was safe as long as i needed to! I had to beg them to stay at my friends house and only after they talked to Missy and made sure everything was secured enough they let me stay there! Marks bruises on you or not makes no difference, he will do it again and i hate to say this but you never know what can happen when a violent person is in rage! I fear for you ...you need to get out of there and please dont ever take him back! He was you're Ex for a reason!

 

 

 
 
 Gglynn (6)    (49 / F-M / Tennessee)
17-Feb-13 12:52 am
@heikeva: cops around here are all about who you are and how much money you got

 

 

 
 
 Deb82622 (2)   (61 / F-M / Missouri)
17-Feb-13 1:00 am
Yes, I Agree, Go Directly To Shelter!!!!.They Won't Turn You Away!!!! Be Careful, No Man Is Worth Your Life, Or Worse He Could Turn You Into A Veg Or Cripple You!!! My X Use To Hit Me In The Back Of The Neck. I Ended Up With A Nervous Tick For A Year!!! They Can't Do Anything For Nerve Endings. Leave If He's Hitting You!!!

 

 

 
 
 Southernyankee44 (1)    (44 / M-F / Florida)
17-Feb-13 1:10 am
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline and see if they can point you in the right direction for help. (800) 799-SAFE (7233)

 

 

 
 
 heikeva (69)   (60 / F-M / Bayern)
17-Feb-13 1:19 am
@heikeva: cops around here are all about who you are and how much money you got
Gglynn there has to be something, somebody around you who could help you! Call you're Govener i will if there is nothing in you're Area for abuse victims its time somebody is gonna do something about that! What fricken Country are we living in? That makes me so mad...come stay with me! I have enough room house is big enough!

 

 

 
 
 heikeva (69)   (60 / F-M / Bayern)
17-Feb-13 1:25 am
Gglynn get a gun anything maze whatever you need and if he attacks you again do what you have to do! I wasnt gonna die without a fight and him hurt 2! And i did ...and i got away dont ask me how but when you're adrenalin is going anything is possible!

 

 

 
 
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