@BigPapaRedneck: Not cool, not cool at all! :)

@PureGold: Listen. I know you're not here right now. But it was very insensitive to start a thread like that. It offended many people, including some who didn't say a word because they knew that it had already caused enough strife as it was. In my opinion it was crass, vulgar, and just totally uncalled for. While I do respect your opinion there's just sometimes it has no place in forums such as this. I wish you well but after I found out some things I cannot sit here in and not say anything without being greatly disturbed. Sweets, before you say a word let's agree to disagree and go on. I'm not trolling or going overboard with my words here. Let's just move on and stay on good terms.

No it wasnt. Ive been here in one form or another since the forums started. And I only disagreed with the phony-ness of it...not the content. Back in the day....the day when sh!t was crazy active, there were posts abt EVERYTHING, and no panties got wadded. To say a subject isnt warranted is bullsh!t. I saw two people on that thread, who were raped, and didnt see a problem with it. Again, Sesame Street has forums....Ive seen this place great, and today isnt it.....

Sounds like maybe someone influenced you to say this, I had already moved on. Stay in your inbox and we'll stay on good terms no doubt :)

@sweeterthejuic3:. Actually that was my opinion before I spoke to the parties I had. The only thing I didn't know was who started this mess is the first place. You said he's welcome to his opinion now do a man a solid and please respect mine. I don't respect anybody any less for having their point of view but everything has it's place. Like I said, and I won't say another word after this, let's agree to disagree and put this in the past.

@BigPapaRedneck: Youre missing the point-We have discussed worse things such as losing children or child molestation and it has never been to hurt anyone or cause bad memories-if it did nobody ever said anything cuz it IS a public forum...just dont read what ya dont wanna discuss:)

@BigPapaRedneck: Ok, but that's the thing it WAS in the past. He had logged off and you felt the need to reiterate what you pretty much had already made clear. Except this time, my name was brought up, which is gonna put me on the defense because I didn't have sh-t else to say that I hadn't already said about this. So whoever you've been "talking" to that was offended by anything I said can stfu. I've never been raped, I feel for those that have been. But that man was not being insensitive by asking a f*cking question! So whoever felt personally attacked maybe needs to go back and read the entire thread. It wasn't uncalled for, I have written a story about infidelity, murder, and lesbians and if someone attacked me because I asked a question about any one of those things, I'd attack them right the f*ck back. People need to grow the f*ck up and keep my name outta of their gotdamm mouths if they don't wanna be embarrassed.

@sweeterthejuic3: I, NOT ANYONE ELSE, I brought your name up just cause I knew you'd have something to say if I finally gave in and offered my opinion. If he accepted messages from men I for damn sure would've taken this up WITH HIM in private. Unfortunately he doesn't. Goodnight y'all. Not gonna hang around the hostility and end up with a dunce.

So you admit to trolling her?

Personally I have a hard time giving consideration to a pov that is only formed after they "found out some things". I just find it easier to consider someone that forms their own opinion...no matter how popular or what it gains them.